Is that a question or a statement.
A stepper motor or a stepper drive is not normally damaged by how fast you run the motor or how high you have the acceleration.
What can happen is you get "lost steps" because the stepper motor cannot accelerate fast enough, or the top speed is too high. However, it doesn't damage anything.
What can damage a stepper motor is if you have stepper drive current set too high. Look at the stepper motor data sheet and set the stepper drive maximum current to that value. If you have high ambient temperatures you may need to keep a check on your motor and drive temperatures. I have big aluminium heat sinks on my stepper drives. Do your stepper drives have adequate heat sinking.
On my plasma table my max. speed is 10,000 mm/min and the acceleration is 1500 mm/sec/sec. That was years ago and the motors and drives are still doing great today.
I use Gecko G203V drives. I once ran my table for a1 hour (a torture test) at 10,000 mm/min with lots of zig zag moves, etc. The motors and drives were perfectly fine.