Unfortunately...lots of configurations can do what you're wanting. I used Acme 1/2-10 5 start screws which seem to be a good and cost effective way to get accuracy, and motion per revolution. NEMA 23's should do most of what you're after. Get low inductance motors though. Read all the build threads here and you'll get a good idea of what will work. Most everyone has asked the same if not same kinds of questions. Here's my build thread...http://www.cnczone.com/forums/diy-cn...05340-cnc.html. I'm not saying mine's a good example of what to do, but I ask a lot of the questions you'll ask.
My machine is in the arena of 36"X24" cutting area with NEMA 23's. I used SBR16 rails...plenty rigid for this application. I build guitars so I cut a lot of hardwood with mine, plus I cut and engrave 6061 aluminum with it. Ultimately, you're going to have to be the one that decides on the oomponents to use. The advice given to me was just to go for it and I did. Good luck.