As far as spindle power goes, it depends on what you will be cutting, although more power is always nice, more weight on the head isn't. Especially with your spindle adapter idea.
Your plan to build-up the spindle has too many risks: rigidity, cracked welds and warping over time.
If you must build it up rather than start with a solid block, then the shape you came up with is springy in the +/- X direction, the box needs to be closed in the front and the round tube needs to protrude though the top and bottom plate in order to get proper welds. The entire assembly should be normalized before machining to size. But in the end don't weld it up.
The BT30 and the rest of the machine can work very hard, your spindle idea will by far be the weakest part of the machine..