You are not alone here. If I can speak for some of the others here, I would say we can try and help you through it.
I just received my Raptor32x40 from George in Jan this year. I basically have the mechanical parts all put together and now in the process of getting all the electrical and controls assembled and working. In a way, what you have completed is the opposite to what I have completed.
I also purchased a table kit from George, well, just the corners and legs. I had to order the steel square tubes online since there really are no "local" metal shops to speak of around here. I purchased my square tubes from Allmetalsinc.com The nice thing about all metals is that they will cut the tubes to the nearest 1/16 of an inch for you, and their prices were good as well.
On the servo, which spindle motor did you get? I have the Teknomotor 2.0Kw which is a 2.7Hp spindle. Have not fired it up yet.