I purchased BobCAD/
CAM v.19 and upgraded to v.20. Then I even spent $1,000 on a 3-day seminar all to no avail. I deal with wood. I tried VisualMill 5.0 and have to admit that it is much easier than BobCAD. However, I finally found the Vectric software and was making very nice parts in 2D 2.5D and 3D the same day that I made the purchase.
I think that VisualMill might be better suited for your type of machining. However, you might want to check with the Vectric people. No hard sell. GREAT tech support and free forums. They also have all of their programs available for download along with all of their free video tutorials. They ask that you PLEASE try their programs BEFORE you buy them to make sure that they can do what you want on YOUR machine.
I DO NOT work for them or get anything for recommending their products. It's just that I was in the same place as you a few months ago. I am actually having fun with my
CNC router now that I have software that works.