Unfortunately, virtually all of the kits that you'll find are for lightweight hobby level machines.Could you give me some pointers where to look for an alternative to the Ox. Or if you could direct my attention to certain producers/kits, that will give me a starting point too.
CNC Router Parts is the only kit machine that's at another level. But shipping to the UK would probably be prohibitive.
As for the spindle.
Most people use 2.2Kw spindles from Ebay.