I wish I knew the whole story behind this post, but I'm glad you vented. You're right their is no ass kissing here but I must enforce the stay on topic rule. So I'm closing this post, please don't take offence to it.
UPDATE-
I got the whole story and all I can say is, This site is for YOU the Members, and their are rules to follow, but other than that all suggestions are Welcome and Considered. I will not bash or allow other's to bash anyone here like "other sites".
Enjoy the CNCzone...................