I don't know about you, but the IH and Tormach are both over 1000 lbs. and not that small. Not something that is easy to move or get through front doors. If I were a landlord, I'd be a little concerned with something like these sitting in the livingroom of a place I'm renting out. You know you needs and what it possible but this is my two cents worth.
As for a site for more information, you're on it. You just have to research everything. Everyone has their own thoughts on what they want to do, need to do, and can do. As you express an interest in turning as well as milling, perhaps a combination mill/lathe is in order. However, I don't know of any turn key packages for such things.
Good luck in your search.