The biggest bargain is to get stuff that is known to work from the get go. I started with a Taig using a Xylotek board. It was an exercise in frustration (this was pre G540). When the G540 came out, I got one of those and a decent power supply and it was a whole new world.
Have you been to
Hossmachine Homepage He has a lot of information on converting X2s in the
CNC Conversion section. One of the Keling packages he mentions is price competitive with the Probotix package you mention.
The Probotix kit you linked to is 280 oz in not 400 btw. Note also that the kit you pointed to is Unipolar so you only get about half the rated holding torque (see the UniPolar vs BiPolar page in the Probotix site). You would certainly be better off with the higher voltage power supply option. As well, the 280 motor will probably perform as well or better than the 400 given the available drives and power supplies. Holding torque doesn't tell the whole story.
Btw that eBay kit you list is all but worthless. I was going to suggest that it might be worth buying for the motors but the inductance is 18mh thus those motors need about 130V to run at their peak.
It doesn't cost a whole lot more to get something that works well vs something that will drive you nuts...
good luck!
bob