3 phase power is usually just required to run the spindles. 3-phase spindles work much better than routers intended for intermittent use by hand. You can power them with an inverter, or VFD (variable frequency drive). You can find VFDs that will accept 240 single phase and output 3-phase; you need to oversize them, though, since there's some loss in translation.
I'd say you're right about building versus buying, especially if you're only considering buying a router sight-unseen from China. But some of the parts that come from there are of good quality - the problem is figuring out which are and which are not.