Thanks for all the advice everyone. I'll keep an eye out to see what's happening with MechCAM Art. MeshCAM and Mach3 for $450 seems like a decent deal. But ArtCAM, what can I say...wow! That looks like just the ticket, I went through every page of their site and it seems to be just what Im thinking of.

All that remains is to find out a price, although I always worry when they don't show the price on their website!
So anyone know how much ArtCAM Pro is?
Edit: Hmm...ArtCam's e-mail doesn't seem to be working, or at least I can't send to it.
Edit2: Its my email thats not working....grrr